Good Advice That She Just Didn’t Take

I asked for blogging ideas on Twitter and then basically dismissed them all. Erica had a good one — she wanted to me write about hand tawsing and what I get out of it. I would — it's an interesting topic after all — but I already blogged about it in the entry hand punishments back in 2007. I'm not sure I have much to add, except that Paul tawsed my hands for a scene we did at Shadow Lane this year and I'm regretting that he's ever taken it up.

Serenity suggested (because she's sure going to be writing about them soon) that I write about my thoughts on buttplugs (could we think of a less descriptive term??) and ginger. But I don't have much experience with being plugged — my anal adventures have involved thermometers and That Thing.  My only experiences with ginger has been the pain the roots are to grate when cooking. 

Maybe I'll bake some cookies and leave the ginger plug stories to Serenity and Zille

8 thoughts on “Good Advice That She Just Didn’t Take

  1. Serenity Everton

    I actually really really dislike the term BUTT PLUG too. I mean, I dislike the word BUTT so add in plug and it’s especially distasteful.
    Despite the ageplay inference, I even prefer ‘anal pacifiers’ over butt plug.
    Just typing the two words makes me wince.
    What do you suggest as a more preferable and acceptable term?

  2. Mija

    Hmm. Along the lines of your discussion with Paul and Marie, I think maybe “the flange.” I do like the word “flange” — it has style.

  3. Mija

    I have a cheap ceramic ginger grater from a Chinese market. But maybe one from WS would work better. Thanks for the link. Now any idea of what we should rename the plugs?

  4. Indy

    My favorite line about buttplugs comes in this clip:
    The clip opens with the late, great Molly Ivins commenting, “The Texas legislature has been embarrassing itself writing laws about sex ever since I can remember, and I’ve been covering them over 30 years now. I wish they’d just give up the entire endeavor; it’s just it’s an embarrassment to everyone when they do dipshit stuff like this.” (Texas accent makes it even better!)
    I have no idea what you should call them, but butt plugs make a brief appearance at 2:38. But one should really watch this clip in its entirety!

  5. paolo in dublin

    Hi Mija – I’m not terribly interested in butt plugs, but do hope your cookies turned out okay 😉
    I also wanted to commend you on your fine Hand Punishments posting (originally from 2007), I thought it was excellent.
    Best wishes,


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